Sad to know it’s happening. Though I must assume it’s mostly part of cringey right-wing/incel culture along the lines of “your body, my choice” etc. Do you think it’s common enough around Lemmy to justify policing of a very regular word? Or do you think it may serve as a common enough trigger?

I, for the life of me, can’t understand why everyone is so concerned about the word.

When I say “male”, no one bats an eye. Should I say “female”, hell breaks loose.

The word “female” exists along with “male”, just the same way “women” exists along with “men”. It’s just an adjective form. There’s no need to overcomplicate it, and no inherent intent to do whatever bad you assume when someone says it.

My admin flat out refuses to add any donation options, citing he has enough money to maintain the instance as a hobby project. Nice!