I’m still a mod in my city local subreddit.
One of the other mods is also involved in a Whatsapp group which, over time, has evolved to a quite active community, with subgroups dedicated to several topics to help people settling in the city (housing, finance, parenting, etc.)
The Whatsapp group has recently requested to add a link to their website in the subreddit sidebar. The mod who is also involved in thee WhatsApp group brought the topic in the mod chat.
One of the oldest mods (who isn’t even modding that much these days, it’s mostly another one single person, poor them btw) replied with the statement in the title.
Seems so weird to me to want to gatekeep the FAQ of a subreddit that much. The objective is to help newcomers to the city integrate, why make it difficult to have all pointers in the same place?
In addition, this is probably the kind of reactions you’ll get when trying to talk about a Lemmy community on a subreddit.