I’m a man. Only ever dated, been attracted to women. Recently I met this guy and I’m having weird feelings. I can’t quite tell if I’m attracted to him as a person or just like the way he treats me; nonetheless something makes me want to treat him differently than any other guys - the way I would a girl I suppose. My friends say I might be attracted to femininity in general regardless of gender and that’s why I feel this way, and the reason why it hasn’t surfaced until now is because I haven’t yet met a guy to tick those boxes. Wondering if anyone has been through something similar.

  • Dragon Rider (drag)@lemmy.nzEnglish
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    20 hours ago

    god knows that every romantic relationship will require sex to let my partner know that I care about them and their needs

    That’s not true. And it’s extra not true if you let your partner satisfy their sexual needs with other people.

    • SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz
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      16 hours ago

      I actually have tried it before and gave up after a few separate times.

      I’m super super super open to poly relationships, but it seems like most folks who are also looking for/in poly stuff are not emotionally mature enough to make it work properly.

      The pool is barely a puddle with all the requirements to make my particular situation work out. I’m just working to kind of accept my fate, at this point.